If there’s one thing I’ve heard a million times by now, it’s that I’m “strong.” People tell me I’m strong, and that they could not have handled the things I’ve been through. My general reasponse when people tell me I’m “strong” is that I really don’t feel it. When I Read more…
Last year, I decided I might like to meet someone. After five years of being single, I thought it might be nice to not be quite so single any more. My first attempt at that didn’t go so well, and a friend suggested I join a dating site. I resisted, because… Read more…
Right now, I’m recovering from an operation. As well as this, I am recovering from other things; some are those I thought I had long since dealt with; others are things I wasn’t even entirely aware I needed to deal with. In all cases, it has been a slightly strange Read more…
I am in The Sun today, alongside four other women, talking about how many people I’ve slept with. At first, I was just going to do the piece, have my photo taken in a nice dress, and not tell anyone about it. Because, you know, it’s kind of a personal Read more…
Valentine’s Day is coming, and everywhere you look there are hearts and cards and smushy mushy stuff. Throughout my adult life, I’ve been single on Valentine’s Day more often than not, and previously this time of year was spent feeling mostly shitty about being alone on The Most Romantic Day Read more…
The thing about dating when you’re a single parent is that it’s such a kerfuffle! I mean, dating in itself is a pain in the bum – you get dressed up, you put on your best smiley face and basically make like you’re having a job interview for an hour Read more…
The ex was by far the worst, but by no means the first. Here is a brief list of some of the other frogs I’ve kissed… I must’ve been drunk to put up with this… When I was at college I briefly went out with a boy a couple of Read more…